In many ways, this world that we live in is a truly lonely and hard place. People, even sometimes the people we most trust or rely on, abandon or disappoint us; they are taken from us by death or sometimes just simply move on. Some of our favorite places slowly fall apart and fail to be what they once were to us. And patterns of life to which we have grown accustomed sharply change and we realize that we cannot continue to live in their familiarity any longer. In many ways, adult life is a slow process of accommodating ourselves to a world that is increasingly strange and unfamiliar, where the things we knew and loved, even ourselves, age and change and waste away.
That’s why communion and baptism are important, because they are tangible signs of the unchangeableness of God’s plan in the midst of lives so burdened with change and death that sometimes we feel nearly crushed by the weight. Communion and baptism are the place where God has promised us he will always be for us, in the same way he always has been, bearing with him the full availability of his gentle love that we saw once at our conversion but sometimes feels so far away. Communion and baptism are important because they are a special and precious place where God has promised to always make himself available to us.
The theological word for these two places, the places where God has promised to meet us in a special way, is ‘sacrament’. When we call communion and baptism sacraments, we mean four main things: they are a physical ritual, they nevertheless carry a deep spiritual significance, they have been instituted by Jesus himself, and they make a difference in our lives because God works in them through his Holy Spirit.
First, then, the sacraments are physical. You see, God understands very clearly that we can not always make our ‘feelings’ do what we want. He, in Jesus Christ, has himself experienced real human feelings, just like ours. God knows that our memories are frail, and how easy it is, when we are discouraged or alone, to doubt the things of which we were once so sure. It’s why he gave us physical baptism, and why he made it something that always includes other people as witnesses. When I am on the bottom, I can forget the feelings I had the day that Jesus came into my life, or even talk myself into doubting that I’ve ever even really been saved at all, but I cannot doubt that my baptism happened. Not that my baptism is the thing that saves me, God does. But because baptism is something physical—something I can point back to without the dispute of my memory—God can use it to give me courage in the face of spiritual self doubt or the attack of the devil. In the same way, communion is a physical activity on account of the fact that God understands the frailty of our psyches. Sometimes I cannot make my heart feel ‘worshipful’ or ‘spiritual’, even though I very genuinely want to. God knows that. And so he has made it so that even when I cannot make myself ‘feel’ anything when I worship, even when prayer is difficult and my spiritual life seems so cold, I can come to God in communion, and find him there. Communion is a meal and not an exercise in ‘thinking spiritual thoughts’ because God knows that sometimes that’s all we’re really capable of, and he loves us enough to want us around even when that’s all we can give. The sacraments are physical.
Second, the sacraments are also spiritual. In communion, we receive God’s special spiritual grace of forgiveness, and are given afresh a special opportunity to repent of life lived ‘not God’s way’. In Old Testament times, the head of the family would go to sacrifice the offering at the temple, but the meat would be brought home for all the family to eat. By participating in that meal they participated in the offering and claimed its validity in their own lives even though they were not present when it was sacrificed. The same is true for us. We were not there when Christ was sacrificed for our sins, but when we eat the bread and drink the cup in faith God freely and graciously applies the offering of Christ afresh to each one of us. From our perspective, communion is the opportunity that God gives us to say once again: ‘Heavenly Father, that sacrifice of Jesus Christ that happened so long ago, I need it once again today, and, in faith and repentance, I claim it once more for me and for my family.’ Likewise, in baptism we receive God’s special grace of welcome into his family. If conversion is the place where we are reborn, baptism is the place where we are re-named as a member of God’s family. Because we are one family, we are all baptized into the same name of God the Father, God the Son, and God the Spirit. In doing so, God claims us in a special way as his own children, just as my children bear not just my features and my likeness, but also formally carry my name. And just as it would seem bizarre to wait years before filling out the birth certificate application for a newborn and finalizing his membership in the family by giving him the family name, it ought to seem bizarre to us to wait years between conversion and baptism in our churches. Communion is the sacrament of forgiveness afresh; baptism is the sacrament of welcome into God’s family. Neither is merely a physical symbol; both bring God’s grace into our lives in an unseen but tremendously real way. The sacraments are spiritual.
Third, the sacraments are only the two parts of Christian worship given to us directly by Jesus Christ. Right from the start, in both the New Testament and in the earliest church, Christian worship contained many of the elements that still characterize the Church today: preaching, meeting together in a regular place, singing, reading the Bible, praying, socializing together, and collecting an offering. All of these are biblical and important aspects of our Christian identity, but even above these stand communion and baptism, because the Bible so clearly points out how they are the commands of Jesus himself. “Go,” says Jesus, “and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.” (Mt 28:19) “This is my body,” he says at the last supper, “which is given for you. Do this to remember me.” (1Co 11:24) Even if we don’t always understand everything that communion and baptism mean, they are a non-negotiable part of how we structure worship in our churches because it was Jesus himself who gave them to us. The sacraments are important because Jesus teaches us that this is how we ought to worship, this is where we can expect to find him when we come together to celebrate and to commemorate the salvation he won for us on the cross.
Finally, communion and baptism are meaningful for us because God himself gives them meaning by his Holy Spirit. The bread and the cup and the water are not the real thing. God is the real thing, and the spiritual grace of the sacraments comes to us only because God himself comes to us through them. Not that he cannot work in other ways, or is not present at other times, but he has put these two activities into the very center of our Christian lives as places where, above all others, he offers himself to be found. It’s a little like trying to find me at work if you have an appointment to come by ‘in the afternoon’. Sometimes I’ll be in the library, sometimes in class, sometimes in the computer lab, sometimes out for a walk to get a snack (or a break), sometimes in the lobby chatting, and sometimes at the registrar’s. You might find me by looking in any of those places, but if you go to my office, and wait, you will eventually always find me there. In fact, it would be confusing to me if you didn’t always start your search for me there, because that is the place where I already told you I would plan to meet with you. God is like that, but in a sense that is more true and more just. He is in all these places, but especially in the place where he has already said that he will meet us: in communion and in baptism. The sacraments are important because they are where God stands ready to meet with us in a special way. The sacraments are important because God is present to us in the midst of them through the Holy Spirit. This of course means that quarreling over the physical parts of communion and baptism—crackers or bread, juice or wine, one big cup or lots of little cups, sprinkling or immersing—is an offense to God himself, because it suggests that God is only able to be present if we get the physical symbols exactly right. But the truth is that none of us probably ever get the symbols right, if ‘right’ means doing it precisely the way that Jesus did it. Thank God that when it comes to the sacraments doing it exactly how Jesus did it is the least important thing. Even if the person who baptized you turns out in the end to have been an idol worshiper all along, your baptism is still true baptism (which is, by and large, the story of the ‘Donatist controversy’). The sacraments are effective at bringing God’s presence into our lives in a special way because nothing can stand in the way of God accomplishing his will-to-love, not because of the correctness of the symbols, the purity of our pastors, or even how well we have managed to perfectly recreate the experience of Jesus and his first disciples. Communion and baptism have power in our lives because of the Holy Spirit, not because of how we ‘do’ them. “Water,” says Peter, “is a picture of baptism, which now saves you, not by removing dirt from your body, but as a response to God from a clean conscience. It is effective because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.” (1P 3:21) The sacraments are real because God himself is the one who makes them real by coming and being present to us through his Holy Spirit.
A few weeks ago my family and I were in church together and, after taking communion, my son caught my attention and, eyes twinkling, rubbed his tummy and whispered to me: “I really needed something like that.” Of course he meant that he had been hungry for a snack, which I in fact also was, but he also somehow managed to express the essence of why communion and baptism are important in just a few words. ‘I really needed something like that.’
I needed a physical reminder—like a badge—of my salvation that I could refer back to. I needed a tangible activity that I could participate in when my heart felt ‘cold’ or ‘blank’ when I came to worship. I needed forgiveness this week, I needed a chance to repent again and get a fresh start again from God’s hand. I needed what Ignatius called the “medicine of immortality, and the antidote to keep us from dying” to re-infuse the health of the risen Christ into my life after a week of everything that this week has been. (ANF, i.58) I needed to be connected with the real, tangible life that Jesus lived and the things that he taught. I needed the actual presence of God in my life.
Communion and baptism are important because they represent the place where, in spite of everything that goes on in and all around us, God promises to meet us with the power of the risen Christ, offering his grace in a special way through the personal presence of his Holy Spirit. And I really needed something like that.
If I was preparing for accreditation I would . . .
• Read “The Ministry of Baptism and Eucharist”, in Thomas Oden’s book, Pastoral Theology, chapter eight (105-126)
• Understand the meaning of the terms ‘sacrament’ and ‘Eucharist’
• Memorize Matthew 28:19 and 1 Corinthians 11:23-26